Professional and stylish yet not too frivolous was the goal. I felt that it looked good and didn't give it another thought.....till the post banquet outdoor bar party. I sat down near a few other women I had met earlier in the week and scanned the nametags of others in our little circle. One guys name was very familiar, due to being very famous. Like, read-his-papers-my-first-year famous*. We chat and in addition to telling me that he really enjoyed my talk he also mentions that I ... 'had on a really smart dress.' Of course, this started the whole conversation of how the often-outdoors-based-research we do influences how we dress. Personally, I appreciate getting dressed up- or even just dressed in 'business casual' and am happy for opportunities to do so. Not everyone agrees. The Grackle is very much of the mindset that his work is the same whether or not he is wearing matching socks**.
I know that we shouldn't judge based on appearance... but we do. Depending on your subfield, a suit for an interview is either required or laughable. Despite my concern for dress at conferences/teaching/tests this was the first time that it was really verified that someone important took notice of me because of how I presented myself.
I always thought it mattered and well, there you go. Weird. And it sort of makes me want to go shopping.....
*I'm still kicking myself for being intimidated and not talking to him very much. Really thought I was over that by now.
**which, don't worry, he usually does.
7 comments:
Well, it is a very smart dress. I like it quite a bit.
I love that dress. Very smart.
A lot of times I think the way we dress tends to make less of an impression aesthetically and more of one professionally. By dressing a certain way under certain circumstances you're giving a signal that you are someone to be taken seriously. But then again, I over think these things :-)
Thanks Nadine!
Amanda, I think you are completely correct. I've heard that you should dress for the job you want, not the one you have!
Ooo, I like the dress!
Love the dress, and that print is awesome! Great choice for the presentation, yet still very age-appropriate.
OMG I love that dress!
I'm not very comfortable wearing dresses at meetings because I like to feel more gender neutral. Not like I wear boys clothes though. And it's probably more because I don't like how I look in skirts. Whatever.
Thanks! It is my favorite =)
ecogeofemme- that can be important and if there were fewer women in my field, I probably would avoid skirts/dresses as well. As it is, I try to ignore that the older women are laughing at my frivolous little self in skirts =P
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